Family is the closest environment to us and friend is the closer one, however the way they treated us. Family member love each other in their own way, with love or hate. But surely there's a love even if it's only a little. Talk about family is not that easy, especially for people with childhood bad memories. There are two possibilities if those people become a parent, they will be better parent or they will be worse just like theirs.
I think being a parent is hard work. As a parent, you are also a role model, note that. getting your children to listen yo you in a good way. Let your children know that you love and respect them and their work. Just treat your children as well as you treat yourself. Never ever hit your children! That won't works! Your children's behavior depends on how you treated your children. Be a better parent, if you have children. If you don't have one, think hard before you do. My advice is "don't ever think to have children if you can't take care of yourself".
Family will never leave you, so does friend (just a good friend). Family should be a place you run away to, but ironically some children run away from their families. So, friends become the new family. What do you do if your friends are worse than your family? Where would you run away to? Yeah, the fact is you make your own happiness. So, don't depend on anyone. I realized that i should not have high expectations of anyone, especially a friend. I have some bad memories of that. I think friendship is a supported relationship, but only a few friends does. There are two of negative types of friend that seriously annoy, judgemental and underestimate. I have one, unfortunately. And I don't know how to deal with my judgmental friend? But I still have faith that what goes around comes back around. Whatever you do in this life to other people, whether it is good or bad, the same will return to you.
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